I was looking at my friend’s engagement pictures.. and I started thinking.. “Why people get married that early?” and maybe for the first time in my life the answer came right away “ Because life is that damn hard. “
When you start growing up, you realize how many problems, difficulties there are in life that you will probably face if not now, then later.
And you know you can get over them but you need someone to support you, and here comes the problem.
In our modern life, parents are so busy supplying the financial needs for their children so they could study in universities (which is very noble from them to do). On the other hand, this thing pushes people to get married, to find someone to stand by their side, to talk to, to care about.
Now lets not forget friends who helped me personally a lot in life. But let’s be honest, everybody has it’s own problems, they won’t be available for you 24/7.
And here comes another Question, why married? Why not just a boyfriend? Because we are afraid of getting a heart broken. When you love someone, you give them everything you have, especially your heart. You trust him on everything you’ve got, you connect your life with his. and getting married diminishes this option.
hope these marriages last forever, at least I hope they picked the right one, someone that they can talk to and live in sickness and in health, someone they can share their tears with him and not only their laughs.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m still against early marriages, but at least now I can understand them. And to be honest, it takes a lot to survive these few years alone before you’re mature enough to get married.
Love, live and laugh. :)
